All I want is it to load meta-data for 85,000 FLAC files, and allow me to search in a split-second, and then play an album. Oh, and it has to support 24bit FLAC too.
I don't use playlists, I don't care about UI so much.
At home I use a Squeezebox Transporter. Works brilliantly. But in a desktop player WinAmp is the only thing I've found that can scan and handle the collection, and than search it fast. So I run that in a VM.
I realise I'm an edge case, but WinAmp for Mac looks like it fits my need.
[1]: http://cogx.org/