Indeed, unfortunately when it comes to children/babies everyone is busybodies and seems to think they can act on behalf of the child in their interest and trump the actual parents. The biggest actor in the US in this capacity is CPS themselves, who investigate and take black children at far higher rates than the others races, believing they can stomp on black parents to implement their idea of bettering the outcome of babies to closer match that of white ones.

I hope someday society can see your plan of less interventionism is the more correct one.